7 Common Mistakes Made When Choosing a Hairstyle
Many men make common mistakes when updating a hairstyle. Several factors come into play when making this decision, and not all guys take these key things into account. To avoid making a mistake, read the following questions and the go to town with your stylist:
Is this hairstyle age appropriate for me?
Many men will choose a style that does not translate well for their age. Picking a young hairstyle does not make you look younger if anything it makes you look older and like you’re trying too hard.
Does the hairstyle fit your lifestyle?
If you’re a low maintenance type or an out door person, picking a hairstyle that requires a lot of up keep or tons of product probably isn’t your best choice. You should always ask yourself if you’re willing to put in the time to achieve the look. Similarly, if you’re a wake up and go person a high maintenance hairstyle isn’t for you. Choose one that you can get the look you want with the least amount of fuss.
Do you have the right texture or thickness of hair for this particular hairstyle?
This is very important. If you don’t have the right hair type to support the style it will never come out the way you expect. You will end up disappointed in your choice, and also in your stylist for not warning you that your hair can’t do what you want it to do.
Do you like using hair product?
If you don’t like using hair products, choosing a style that requires using them won’t be a great choice, as you’ll end up hating the way you look. Know what you want your hair to do and what it will take to keep it that way.
Is your hair thinning?
If so, choose a short style closer to the scalp. Trying to keep it longer and conceal the fact your losing it won’t fool anyone. Embrace what you have and your inability to change it, then, choose a style that doesn’t accentuate the fact it’s thinning. If chosen well, people will not notice what you lack; rather they will notice what you have.
Is the hairstyle dated or dead?
If the hairstyle you’re sporting topped the trend charts during the 80s or 90s and has yet to make its comeback, it’s better to leave that style in the past. Nobody will admire you’re nod to the mullet, flattop, or frat boy fade.
How does your man/woman like your hair?
If you’re someone who doesn’t care what anyone thinks, more power to you. However, if you are one to please, ask what style they would like to see on you. They might not be your ultimate solution, but if anything they will appreciate that you care enough to take their opinion into consideration.
Keep in mind that if you have any concerns with what you have chosen, ask your stylist any or all of these questions and get their input – it could mean the difference between a symphony and a train wreck.
Some Hair Raising Shaving Tips by Razor MD
Let’s face it, having to shave our faces every day can seem like a chore …. It’s one more chore that most of us guys would simply rather not have, like doing dishes or talking about our feelings. I can’t help you with the latter but can lend some tips that will give you an efficient means to a great daily shave….We like to think of shaving as the last part of a Guys daily “RITUAL”. In fact, it’s the last “S” in the RITUAL, sh*t, shower and SHAVE. Here are some of the tips to a great, efficient, “chore-free” shave;
The first step is the prep. Guys, take a relaxing hot shower before shaving. Let the hot water envelop your face and open your pores. This is a great way to have some “alone” time, when you can just think and unwind.
The second step is the pre-shave, use a pre-shave oil which will moisten the skin and loosen the beard before shaving. This also helps the razor glide better over the beard, thus reducing redness.
After letting the pre-shave oil soak into your beard for about 60 seconds, you’re now ready to get started shaving. Dip the badger hair shave brush into shave cream and begin to apply shave cream to your beard. The badger brush will help reduce the amount of shave cream used and at same time, penetrate the beard much deeper. Let shave cream sit on face for 60 seconds and then you are ready to shave.
TIP: Always shave with the grain, which means, the way your beard hair grows naturally. If you are looking for a closer shave, you can go over the same areas again with the grain. If you shave against the grain, you run the risk of causing irritation or red bumps. Once done, rinse off your face with luke warm water to help close any cuts. Pat your face dry with a clean towel and rinse off your razor.
For the post shave, using an alcohol-free, post shave solution will calm your beard and help minimize any cuts or redness. TIP: If you still have bleeding, use a styptic pencil on cut to close it up and begin healing process. TIP: If you have redness and have a hot date or somewhere to be, put some Visine eye drops on a cotton pad and apply to redness. The same properties in Visine that reduce redness in one’s eyes also reduce redness on skin.
Lastly, it’s important to apply an oil-free moisturizer to your entire face, to reduce any dryness and to moisten the skin. Some guys tend to have oily skin, or what girls refer to as the “shiny” face. In order to avoid this, choose oil-free products that will eliminate the “shiny” appearance.
Check out Razor MD products for all your shaving needs, a cut above the rest!
Cigar 101: How to Smoke a Cigar
Having smoked thousands of cigars, doing dozens of reviews on The Perfect Draw (my cigar blog) and talking with my fellow cigar smokers (Brothers of the Leaf or BOTL for short) I have learned a number of things that I wish I had known when I started smoking cigars.
If you are ready to take that leap from smoking the occasional stogie to becoming a full fledged cigar aficionado then you need to read on.
Smoke a Variety of Cigars
If you really want to get a good grasp on what kind of cigars are out there then you need to smoke a wide variety. These consist of mild to full bodied cigars, cigars from different companies, cigars with different tobaccos from various countries and different shapes (also known as vitolas).
A question that I often get asked is, “Other than smoking a variety of cigars, how can you figure out what is good?” I remember when I started out, there were some cigars that I smoked that I thought were wonderful. But once I expanded my cigar smoking horizons I realized that those cigars that I thought were excellent were average, at best.
Review the Cigars you Smoke
Reviewing most of the cigars that you smoke is a good idea for a couple of reasons. First off, it allows you to keep track of the cigars you smoked. When I began smoking cigars, I did not review any of them for a couple of years. I liken that time to being blinded and left in a forest, trying to find my way out. It’s fine if you just want to smoke the occasional cigar but if you really want to get an understanding of which cigars are good and what flavors you like in cigars then you will need to keep track of the cigars you smoke.
The second reason why it is a good idea to review the cigars that you smoke is because it makes you focus on the cigar. When I started reviewing cigars, I began picking up more of the nuance in each cigar. All the different spices, the sweetness, chocolate, leather, etc.
Use the Right Tools
Trust me, it’s better to spend a little extra money to get a good cutter and lighter then it is to spend $5 on a long line of lighters and cutters that just aren’t that good.
A solid cutter is the Xikar MTX and there are a number of good lighters out there from companies like Xikar, Blazer and Dupont. Cutting your cigar with a cheap, dull cigar cutter is asking for problems like wrapper tear.
Cheap lighters, on the other hand, routinely break down and produce schizophrenic flames.
While poor quality cutters and lighters can ruin cigars one at a time a substandard humidor can ruin scores of cigars at a time. I won’t get too in-depth here but here are some simple rules about humidors:
- Get a humidor that is bigger then you think you will need.
- Put a digital hygrometer/thermometer in that humidor and make sure the humidity stays around 70% and the temperature at 70 ∞F.
- Humidify your humidor with a humidification system like humidifier beads. Oh, and use distilled water when recharging your humidification system.
Go Smoke a Cigar!
Now that you know some of the basics on becoming a cigar aficionado go out there and smoke a cigar or two!
Travis Lindsay runs a cigar blog called The Perfect Draw where you can find reviews, cigar news and cigar tips. For a look at his favorite cigars check out his Top 10 Cigars 2009.
Is This the End of Chuck Liddell?
UFC 115 saw what many fans believe to be the last MMA fight of Chuck Lidell. After a rousing back and forth battle with Rich Franklin, Lidell was knocked out with a right hook in the first round from out of nowhere.
Tonight’s fight ended in the first round. Both men were trading blows evenly throughout the bout. Chuck seemed like a new man. He threw a wide variety of punches and even made a few take down attempts.
Liddell’s kicks were violent. Franklin’s left forearm was swollen after the fight, leaving many to speculate that it’s broken. Toward the end of the fight, Liddell advanced with a fury of punches taking Franklin towards the cage. Franklin threw a right hook that surprised Chuck for the knockout.
At age forty, Chuck Liddell has accomplished a great deal in the sport of Mixed Martial Arts. During 2005-2006, Liddell was the biggest name in UFC. Now, five years later, Chuck has lost the majority of his last fights. While Liddell lost this fight, he looked in great condition. As for this being the end of his career, never say never.
How to Find the Best Hair Stylist For You
There are many reasons to find a new salon or stylist, but the most common reason I hear from new clients is that they simply are not getting what they want or ask for. In my opinion way too many people stay with the same stylist out of loyalty, which is good to have but if you are not receiving the service you want it may be time for a change regardless of comfortableness and/or loyalty.
Before looking for someone new ask yourself if you have really tried telling your stylist what you want? If the answer is yes, and your stylist just seems to do what they want instead of what you want, it may be time for you to move on. If the answer is no, I do recommend that you speak with them prior to moving on because if you have not told them specifically what you want chances are you are going to run into the same problem again and again.
Now if you do choose to move on and find someone new here are some tips and/or recommendations to aid you in finding a new stylist/ salon:
Ask your friends or family members about their stylist and why/what it is about that experience they enjoy. It does not even need to be someone you know, it could be a stranger, someone with hair that catches your eye or is sporting the style that you have been trying to get. If you do decide to go to them make sure you get the customer’s name and advise the stylist of the referral. Anyone who loves their hair will be more than happy to give you that stylist’s name and tell you why they love them. The people around you are walking billboards for their stylists so if you like what you see why not ask and get that information?
Go online. There are many websites where people go and write about their experiences at that salon or a specific stylist so it is a great tool to use when looking. Some to look at are yelp or city search they will list multiple salons where you can get instant feedback.
When you are out, look at the salons around you. While looking check out the outside of the salons is it clean or dirty? If it looks like a place you might like, go inside and talk to the receptionist about prices, and stylists. If it is a salon that books consultations for potential customers talk with one of their stylists and get a feel for if it is what you are looking for. While you are there ask for a tour of the salon so you can check out the atmosphere, cleanliness of the salon, clientele, and the stylists themselves. It is also a good way to get an idea of their customer service and how they treat their guests.
One thing to always keep in mind when talking to a stylist you have never been to before is to explain what you want the best way you know how to. A good way to do that is to tell them what you like and more importantly what you do not like about your hair. As I have said in my other articles bring in pictures, examples of what you are looking for and then ask the stylist if that is possible with your hair. Do not set yourself up for disappointment. Once again, if you do not know what you want how will the stylist? The stylist will tell you what will or won’t look good on you so do not be afraid to say what you want. It is your hair and you are the one who has to live with it and look at it everyday, not them.
The most important thing to keep in mind with this process is patience. Your stylist should be someone you can talk to, sometimes even serving as a therapist for you, so it is important you feel comfortable with him or her. When you find the stylist/ salon for you the time spent will be worthwhile and you will look forward to that experience instead of dreading it.
- Jenny Mastergeorge
Jenny Mastergeorge is an Orange County, CA native and graduate of the Paul Mitchell School of Cosmetology. Growing up, Jenny was always passionate about hairdressing. She started her career working in an office environment, but quickly got bored with office life. Jenny then enrolled in the Paul Mitchell School of Cosmetology and earned her cosmetology license. She then started working as an apprentice at Salon reBelle in Orange, CA. Upon completing her training, Jenny was promoted to a stylist and has been working at Salon reBelle for over 2 years. Jenny has contributed and participated in various outside projects that include: hair-shows, runway shows, television pilots, a Jennifer Lopez music video, photo shoots, as well as styling the hair and applying make up for brides modeling on a “wedding” website. Jenny is also proud to be certified in Keratin Smoothing Treatments.
Spectacular Stephen Strasburg
Stephen Strasburg was nasty in his major league debut on Tuesday Night. The phenom from San Diego State University, who like any greedy Scott Boras client, demanded a record signing bonus and contract for a rookie, proved that he was worth the dough. Strasburg was absolutely filthy in his first start, even though it was verse the hapless Pirates, his ball was dancing. He was hitting the upper 90’s with his fastball and his curve ball was breaking what seemed like 5 feet. One pitch in particular looked like it broke from a hitters shoulder to his ankle. The Rookie finally gave the Nationals fans something to cheer for and look forward to besides the end of a losing streak. He struck out 7 in a row to close out his performance and ended up with 14 K’s in 7 dazzling innings and earned his first win. I can guarantee that if the Nat’s only use him against the “batter challenged” Pirates, he is a shoe in Hall of Famer. I can’t wait until his next start when he faces some actual Major League hitters to see if his stuff looks as dominating as it did tonight. The Nationals can only hope their hitting stud Bryce Harper, who they drafted just yesterday at the MLB Draft, will come with the same type of buzz and talent.
Lakers vs Celtics Game 3 Recap
The Lakers looked dominant in a 9 point Game 1 victory. It looked as though they were too long and much stronger then they were back in 2008 when the Boston Celtics wanted it more and took the championship. The referees played a huge role as Ray Allen, Kevin Garnett and Lamar Odom were all hindered by foul trouble. The Lakers took full advantage as Ron Artest shut down Paul Pierce and Kobe Bryant locked up Rajon Rondo enough to keep him from taking over the game. Bryant looked to be on his way to championship number 5.
How quickly things can change in the NBA Finals. Game 2 looked completely opposite from Game 1, except for the referees playing a big role, nothing else was similar. Ray Allen started the night on fire and made an NBA Finals record 7 three pointers in the first half and 8 in the game. Kobe Bryant was the victim of foul trouble this time as he was limited the entire game and looked timid in the fourth quarter trying to avoid picking up his 6th and final foul. The Celtics took full advantage and seized the opportunity taking Game 2 and swiping the home court advantage from the NBA Champions. With just under 2 minutes in the game, a controversial call that bounced off the hand of Kevin Garnett and was given to Boston, proved to be the deciding call in the game. Although the NBA allows replay under 2 minutes in the game, the referees decided not to review a play that should have been overturned. Rajon Rondo promptly drilled a 15 foot jumper to push the lead to 5 and close the game out. After 2 foul plagued, slow, no rhythm games, the only certainty was that nobody could predict how this series was going to go.
Game 3 has been known to be the pivotal game of the Finals when the series is tied 1-1. The winner of Game 3 when a series is tied has gone on to win the Championship 100 percent of the time! This is great news for all…LAKERS FANS! Game 3 was the best thus far as the referees let the players play and it made for a great game. It started with the Celtics playing off the home crowd and jumping out to a quick 7 point lead, the Lakers withstood the charge and came back with a run of their own to take a commanding lead halfway through the second quarter. They stretched the lead to 17 with great defense and domination by their big men inside. Boston Garden was silenced along with Ray Allen and Paul Pierce who started a combined 0-10. Kevin Garnett woke up from his two game slumber and kept the Celtics in the game. They closed the first half with a run and went to halftime only down by 12. Boston began the second half with stifling defense and held the Lakers to only 15 third quarter points. The lead was down to 6 to begin the fourth. After a string of great plays from Glenn “Big Baby” Davis, the Lakers lead was down to 1 and the Boston crowd was rockin again. With Kobe Bryant struggling to find his shot, Derek Fisher picked up the slack and kept the lead at four with big shot after big shot. After another Ray Allen missed three with about a minute left, Fisher grabbed the rebound and stormed past a Celtics defense that looked like they thought the game was over and he made a miraculous lay-up while being fouled by three Celtics. The Lakers won game three by 7 and took the home court advantage right back. Game 4 is Thursday at 6pm.
How To Ace Your Job Interview
We all know getting the initial interview is the hardest part of the interviewing process. You spend hours creating your resume, searching for jobs, and answering ads in hopes of getting the opportunity to actually talk to someone. When you finally get a call for an interview, you have to make the best of the opportunity; this is when the real work begins.
The backbone of my interviewing approach is being over prepared. I have learned that when you take the time to research the company and familiarize yourself with the job description you will be less nervous allowing yourself to tactfully move through the interview. These are the steps I take prior to all of my interviews:
Step 1 – Research the Company
The goal of this step is to determine what type of company you are interviewing for and what your role will be within the company. More than likely the interviewer will ask you what you know about the company; this is a great opportunity to show them that you are taking the job opportunity seriously and have done your homework on the company.
Start by creating a research document where you can save all of your findings and notes. If you are fortunate enough to know someone that works at the company make sure to rack their brains about the company and its culture. If you do not have an inside connection, use the internet, it is a powerful tool. Begin with the Company’s website; this is where you can get the basics on the company like what products/services they offer, what customer groups they are targeting, their company goals, etc.
After exploring the company’s website start to look for employee and consumer reviews on the company. There are many websites that post reviews by past employees, current employees, as well as consumers that that can offer insight into the day-to-day practices as well as the quality or products/services the company offers. Make sure to take notes regarding any positive or negative feedback you find about the company; this will help you formulate what types of questions to ask during your interview. It is important to keep in mind that the reviews online are bias to one persons point of view. When bringing this stuff up in your interview make sure you present it in a non-combative way. You do not want to make the interviewer defensive.
Once you are familiar with the company’s products/services and are armed with some insight on the culture of the company, you can start to think of specific things you can do to help the company achieve their goals. Try to include your ideas into the interview; anytime you can add a comment about how you think the company might be able to grow or better serve their customers, you are demonstrating proactive thinking.
For instance when I was interviewing for a marketing position, I once recommended a company improve their website because it was out of date and they were not utilizing it to its fullest potential. After I explained how improving their website would help increase sales, the Director of Marketing told me they had recently been kicking the idea around. I got a job offer the next day and my first project for this company was to create a brand new website. Even if your recommendation isn’t something they are thinking about, chances are they will be impressed that you are already trying to come up with ways to contribute to the company.
Step 2 – Familiarize yourself with the Job Description
The next step is to go through each bullet point on the job description. When you are doing this think of answers for questions that may come up for each of the bullet points. You want to be able to speak about each of the items listed in the job description. Include things such as relevant experience, things you have learned, past success with each of the tasks, as well as provide positive examples. It is a good idea to take notes as you go through the job description so that it is easy to review you responses later. I usually copy the job description provided and paste it into word and write down my answers/notes bellow each bullet point.
One of the bullet points on a job I interviewed for said “Required experience managing others,” and I wrote down how I managed 11 employees at a previous company. Always elaborate on your answers to explain what you learned from the experience and how your actions were effective. After telling the interviewer that I managed 11 employees, I added how I learned that you can’t treat everyone the same because everyone has different personalities and responds differently to various types of communication. You might have to be hard on one of your team members to get them to perform while another person might need a softer approach.
After answering all the bullet points, read them all over again to make sure you didn’t leave anything out. Always print out the document and take it to the interview so you have notes to use if you forget how to answer the questions. At one interview I actually gave the interviewer my bullet point document. He was very impressed at the amount of work I put into it. It shows the interviewer that you came prepared and that this interview is important to you.
Step 3 – Find typical Interview Questions
As many people know, an interviewer will rarely just ask you questions straight off of the job description. The interviewer’s job is to make sure you can both execute the various responsibilities that come with the job, as well as determine if you have the work ethic and personality to fit within their organization and company culture. It is important to prepare yourself for the “personality and work ethic” questions so that you can accurately and positively portray yourself during the interview.
This is another case where the internet comes in handy. If you run a basic search for “typical interview questions” you will multiple lists of questions to familiarize yourself with. Once you have looked at a few websites you will notice that there are about 20 or so typical questions that pop up on almost all of the lists. Take these typical questions and start building a list of your own. Create a word document where you can store the questions and answers. Go through each of the questions and think about why someone would ask that particular question; this will help you formulate an answer that is precise while further expressing why you are a good candidate for the position.
It is very important to write your answers down for these questions because as job descriptions change from position or position these questions virtually stay the same from one company to the next. You will be able to reference and tweak you answers for future interviews for many years to come. Also, by writing your answers down, you will have a greater chance of remembering your answers during the interview. I typically remember about 70% of my answers just by writing them down and by going over them again and I am able to remember the other 30%. In general, it should be fairly easy to remember your answers because you lived them and they should already be in your memory. The document you created will help you organize your thoughts so that you can thoughtfully express them in a high pressure situation like an interview.
Step 4 – Review your notes
Once I’m done with the first 3 steps I re-read everything again just to make sure I know how I am going to respond to the questions that will be asked. It is a good idea to do this one last time before you head into your interview to ensure all of your answers are at the top of your mind, this will also help you relax since you will be reminded of all the knowledge you have to share during the interview.
Step 5 – Interview the Interviewer
Approach every interview with the mindset that you are going to interview them as much as they are going to interview you. Come prepared with a list of questions that you want to ask about the position, the company, and managing style of my potential boss. It is important to make sure that the job fits you, your goals, and your personality. By asking questions about the company, and the position, shows the interviewer that you are looking to make a responsible and educated decision about the job opportunity. This will show them that you are confident in who you are and what you are looking for and have long term goals in mind for both yourself and the company. Always tell them that you are not looking for a job, but looking for a career and want to make sure that the partnership is going to last. If you are desperate for a job and don’t care what the job is, I still recommend you ask a lot of questions because it shows them you care and that you want to make sure it’s a good fit for both parties.
To impress the interviewer, you need to be confident in yourself. That confidence will come with the proper preparation. Put time, effort and thought into your interview. Always be over prepared. These helpful tips will provide you all of the knowledge and confidence you need to “Ace that Interview!”






