Why You Should Raid Your Girlfriends Hair Products
At one point or another a man will get a look at his girlfriend or wife’s hair products and wonder how she could possibly use, or more importantly need that many products. Men, it is time to look at the pile of products and not see insanity a waste of money, but rather an opportunity to improve your hair in ways you never thought possible.
Women generally have some of the products we in the industry call “the staples of hairstyling.” Look at these products, their names, and uses and ask yourself if you could possibly benefit from your girlfriends hair product hoarding?
Do you have a longer style that can get out of control and frizzy? If so, look at her products – is there a mousse, styling cream, or soft gel? If the answer is yes, then you could be in luck because these products can give you control over that unruly hair if used correctly. (As I always say, these products are best if used in moderation so don’t over do it because you could end up getting a greasy, crunchy, or wet look that may not be what you are trying to achieve).
If you have a short, spikey, or a textured look and your girlfriend, or wife has hairspray, pomade, gel, or a product to get texture these can work for you too. Again don’t go crazy with these products either. Have you ever heard the saying “too much of anything is never a good thing” – well, it applies here.
There are so many hair products out there available for women and/or men. Women love products and often have a spectrum of styling aids so why not see if this collection of hers can be of use for you as well. You might just find a new product you love and in turn save yourself some money by making the most of what has been at an arms reach the whole time.
7 Common Mistakes Made When Choosing a Hairstyle
Many men make common mistakes when updating a hairstyle. Several factors come into play when making this decision, and not all guys take these key things into account. To avoid making a mistake, read the following questions and the go to town with your stylist:
Is this hairstyle age appropriate for me?
Many men will choose a style that does not translate well for their age. Picking a young hairstyle does not make you look younger if anything it makes you look older and like you’re trying too hard.
Does the hairstyle fit your lifestyle?
If you’re a low maintenance type or an out door person, picking a hairstyle that requires a lot of up keep or tons of product probably isn’t your best choice. You should always ask yourself if you’re willing to put in the time to achieve the look. Similarly, if you’re a wake up and go person a high maintenance hairstyle isn’t for you. Choose one that you can get the look you want with the least amount of fuss.
Do you have the right texture or thickness of hair for this particular hairstyle?
This is very important. If you don’t have the right hair type to support the style it will never come out the way you expect. You will end up disappointed in your choice, and also in your stylist for not warning you that your hair can’t do what you want it to do.
Do you like using hair product?
If you don’t like using hair products, choosing a style that requires using them won’t be a great choice, as you’ll end up hating the way you look. Know what you want your hair to do and what it will take to keep it that way.
Is your hair thinning?
If so, choose a short style closer to the scalp. Trying to keep it longer and conceal the fact your losing it won’t fool anyone. Embrace what you have and your inability to change it, then, choose a style that doesn’t accentuate the fact it’s thinning. If chosen well, people will not notice what you lack; rather they will notice what you have.
Is the hairstyle dated or dead?
If the hairstyle you’re sporting topped the trend charts during the 80s or 90s and has yet to make its comeback, it’s better to leave that style in the past. Nobody will admire you’re nod to the mullet, flattop, or frat boy fade.
How does your man/woman like your hair?
If you’re someone who doesn’t care what anyone thinks, more power to you. However, if you are one to please, ask what style they would like to see on you. They might not be your ultimate solution, but if anything they will appreciate that you care enough to take their opinion into consideration.
Keep in mind that if you have any concerns with what you have chosen, ask your stylist any or all of these questions and get their input – it could mean the difference between a symphony and a train wreck.
How to Find the Best Hair Stylist For You
There are many reasons to find a new salon or stylist, but the most common reason I hear from new clients is that they simply are not getting what they want or ask for. In my opinion way too many people stay with the same stylist out of loyalty, which is good to have but if you are not receiving the service you want it may be time for a change regardless of comfortableness and/or loyalty.
Before looking for someone new ask yourself if you have really tried telling your stylist what you want? If the answer is yes, and your stylist just seems to do what they want instead of what you want, it may be time for you to move on. If the answer is no, I do recommend that you speak with them prior to moving on because if you have not told them specifically what you want chances are you are going to run into the same problem again and again.
Now if you do choose to move on and find someone new here are some tips and/or recommendations to aid you in finding a new stylist/ salon:
Ask your friends or family members about their stylist and why/what it is about that experience they enjoy. It does not even need to be someone you know, it could be a stranger, someone with hair that catches your eye or is sporting the style that you have been trying to get. If you do decide to go to them make sure you get the customer’s name and advise the stylist of the referral. Anyone who loves their hair will be more than happy to give you that stylist’s name and tell you why they love them. The people around you are walking billboards for their stylists so if you like what you see why not ask and get that information?
Go online. There are many websites where people go and write about their experiences at that salon or a specific stylist so it is a great tool to use when looking. Some to look at are yelp or city search they will list multiple salons where you can get instant feedback.
When you are out, look at the salons around you. While looking check out the outside of the salons is it clean or dirty? If it looks like a place you might like, go inside and talk to the receptionist about prices, and stylists. If it is a salon that books consultations for potential customers talk with one of their stylists and get a feel for if it is what you are looking for. While you are there ask for a tour of the salon so you can check out the atmosphere, cleanliness of the salon, clientele, and the stylists themselves. It is also a good way to get an idea of their customer service and how they treat their guests.
One thing to always keep in mind when talking to a stylist you have never been to before is to explain what you want the best way you know how to. A good way to do that is to tell them what you like and more importantly what you do not like about your hair. As I have said in my other articles bring in pictures, examples of what you are looking for and then ask the stylist if that is possible with your hair. Do not set yourself up for disappointment. Once again, if you do not know what you want how will the stylist? The stylist will tell you what will or won’t look good on you so do not be afraid to say what you want. It is your hair and you are the one who has to live with it and look at it everyday, not them.
The most important thing to keep in mind with this process is patience. Your stylist should be someone you can talk to, sometimes even serving as a therapist for you, so it is important you feel comfortable with him or her. When you find the stylist/ salon for you the time spent will be worthwhile and you will look forward to that experience instead of dreading it.